Nevertheless, EI is an important skill to have in such environments. Unlike IQ, which is a score designed to assess general intelligence, EI is a specific subset of skills relating to emotions, which can be improved with practice (unlike IQ, which is difficult to increase). In Goleman's model, emotional intelligence involves the following skills (paraphrased):
- Self-awareness - observing one's own emotions
- Self-control - controlling one's own emotions
- Empathy - observing others' emotions
- Social skill - controlling others' emotions
With the complete 4-Part Model, we balance two axes: self and others, and observation and control. (The observation aspects can be thought of as sense organs.) This model focuses on these aspects only, removing character traits, which should be studied separately. Thus, EI survey questions that relate to personality (e.g. enthusiasm about goals - which is related to temperament, not EI) are removed as well.
So, the burning question remains - what is my emotional intelligence score?
Use the levels below and click the button at bottom to calculate your EI score. (This is a self-evaluation, so try to be humble and objective with your answers.) Like IQs, this score is normalized to have average scores of 90-110, with higher and lower scores indicating various levels of superiority and inferiority. In addition, separate scores are given for the 4 different skills as well, so that test takers can then resolve to make individual improvements on skills found to be weaker. (Right-click the generated graph to save as an image for reference.)
I can explain my strengths and weaknesses in detail
I can accurately describe my emotions as I feel them
I can accurately predict what I will do in what situations
I know how to stay calm in difficult situations
I know how to manage frustration or misery into positive actions
I know how to avoid losing my temper
I get carried away and do things on a whim
People have told me that I am a good listener
I easily sympathize with others' plights
I can easily read others' emotions
I am sensitive to the feeling of a group's atmosphere
I am good at organizing groups
I am comfortable talking to any type of person
I can predict how others will react in a situation
I am good at somehow smoothing out emotions when conflict appears
My EQ is:
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